The awkward middle, where you’re no longer a beginner and not yet good, is where most people quit. It’s also the only road to the other side.
There’s a stretch in every new business, and every new skill inside a business, where you know enough to see how far you are from good. The first few weeks were fine, because you didn’t know what you didn’t know. Then your taste caught up and your ability didn’t, and now every proposal, every post, every client call comes with a running commentary about everything wrong with it. This is the point where a lot of promising businesses quietly end. Not from failure. From embarrassment.
It helps to name what’s happening. Your judgment improves faster than your execution, always. You can recognize good work long before you can produce it. That gap between what you can see and what you can do isn’t evidence that you picked the wrong path. It’s evidence that you’re learning, because a person who couldn’t tell the difference wouldn’t be bothered at all.
The mistake is treating the gap as a verdict instead of a phase. Nobody looks at a plumber’s third month and concludes plumbing wasn’t for them. But entrepreneurs, working alone and comparing themselves to people ten years in, do this constantly. They mistake being early for being wrong.
What actually closes the gap is volume, done in public, with feedback. Not another course. Not a redesign of the logo. The fortieth sales call is better than the fourth because of the thirty-six in between, most of which were mediocre, and every one of which was necessary. There is no version of this where you skip the mediocre ones. There’s only the version where you do them now or do them later.
And the clients you have during this stretch are not being cheated. They’re getting your full effort, your attention, and a price that reflects where you are. That’s a fair trade. Some of them will still be with you in five years, and they’ll remember they were there before you were polished. That kind of loyalty doesn’t come from being perfect. It comes from being real and getting better.
You are allowed to be bad at this for a while. You are not allowed to stop before it gets good.
Article contributed by
The AFE Editorial Team